Am I gay or bi or what? Never thought I'd be this confused.?

One of the biggest thing you can do is start thinking for yourself. You are 23..not a kid to worry/think is this what my parents like or don't like. Who cares what they care. They live in their own world..you have to live in yours. Sounds like you might be bi, but that's you decision to make, but please, if you are gay, or bi, make sure your partner/possible wife knows this. Its very disgusting for a wife/family to have to find out from the newspapers (Sen. Larry Craig) that you have been looking under bathroom stalls trying to pick up men..